Wednesday, December 31, 2014

Ma

Early on we started calling my mother's parents Ma and Pa  to differentiate from my Dad's mother whom we called Grandma.  My early childhood, Ma and Pa lived on the farm where my mother was raised about 30 miles from Tomahawk just outside of Ogema. It was a working farm, Pa was proud of his Holstein cattle. Ma helped with the farm chores in addition to keeping house.
It was before the automatic milking machines when Ma would trudge to the barn, grab her stool from the rack and start on the lineup of cows. Milk would ping the bottom of the bucket but soon a rhythmic hiss would take over until the bucket was filled. The barn cats knew the routine and would lineup just close enough that Ma could squirt a short stream of milk to their waiting mouths.  The bucket was dumped into the larger milk can and Ma moved on to the next cow. So it went until the entire herd was milked and ready to be turned out again. Pa would wrestle the full milk cans to the milk house to wait in the cool water for the truck to pick up.

Ma had a large flock of chickens, in the spring she would set up one of the bedrooms in the house as the brooder. Newspapers covered the floor, Pa had made a large enclosure with just room to walk around, A large light hung from the ceiling to provide warmth for the chirping chicks. They would grow contentedly until strong enough to be outside.

Ma loved her grandchildren and made each of them embroidered quilts. The hours she must have spent, hand embroidering the squares, then sewing on the treadle machine until the quilt grew large enough. Being a young mother during the depression, many of the quilts were made from outgrown clothing. The flannel quilts of course were from pajamas and long johns. Her quilts were all tied, and for batting she used additional flannel sheets. 
I was about 4 when my newborn sister received a baby quilt from Ma.  I don't remember saying anything, but Ma knew I needed a gift also. She quickly returned with a small box that held beer bottle salt and pepper shakers. Perhaps a strange gift for a 4 year old, but I treasured them and still have them over 50 years later. 

The next time we visited the farm, Ma handed me my very own quilt for my bed. It was pink (I was the oldest granddaughter) and white with embroidered animals on the white squares.  I couldn't wait to have it on my bed! Yet, my mother decided it would grace a spare bed, rather than my own. I would treasure my quilt, taking many opportunities to lay on it with a good book, trace the animals with my fingers, until finally my mother relented and allowed me to put it on my bed. Though somewhat tattered, that quilt is still a prized possession.

It was time to leave the farm. Pa wanted to retire, Ma wasn't feeling well. The decision was made for them to purchase a trailer and move it to our back yard.  Mom had strict rules about Ma and Pa's new house. We couldn't go to the door and were not allowed in unless we were invited.  One day, I don't know where my siblings were but Ma invited me in. It was time for a treat so she grabbed a fork and speared the last marshmallow in the bag and gave it to me telling me not to eat it. She brought a chair over to the stove and invited me to stand on it. (only a grandmother would sanction this). She turned the flame on medium on her gas stove and showed me how to roast the marshmallow to a rich golden brown. Oh, how yummy, made especially so because I didn't have to share.  A precious memory of a grandmother that would leave us all too soon.

Ma was soon diagnosed with a brain tumor and died while I was in second grade. My parents thought we were too young to go to the funeral so stayed with a babysitter. It was hard to understand why Ma wasn't there for us anymore.
Edwin and Tillie Albrecht in front of their house in the 1940's
I would later know them as Ma and Pa (my grandparents on my mother's side)

Back to Genealogy

It was time to sort through the boxes I received from Grandma,  you know the ones, those filled with photos supposedly burnt in the fire.  Were they Hallbergs, Bjorklunds, Swansons or somebody totally unrelated.

There were a few that I could recognize as having seen from my parent's collection. Whew! Those were identified. Then came others that I had NO IDEA who they were. Some were written on the back in Swedish, and the front had a Swedish Photography Studio stamped on the cardboard frame. Still, which side of the family as both my grandmother and grandfather were Swedish.

By this time Peter (the one who started all this) and I had exchanged many letters.  Email was still not prevalant so I did the best technology of the time. I scanned some of the photos and mailed them to Peter asking if he could identify any.  A few weeks later I got the long awaited answer. He was able to identify all but one. Yippee!!!! This was my grandfather's family.

I asked my father for some help in further identifying some of the unknowns. True, it had been a few years, but he was able to identify some of the others. Yet, there will be a bunch that will forever remain unknown.... Sigh....

There were other treasures in the boxes as well. Grandma had started writing some of her genealogy down. There were newspaper clippings with the puzzle left to me to figure how they all fit in.

It was going to be a journey through time to sift through this and get it recorded. Grandma left me quite a legacy. I only wished she would have been open to talking about her family more while she was alive.

She did mention a couple of stories from her childhood.

She loved to surprise her mother by cleaning the house while her parents were in town. They lived  a few miles from the center of the community, so I imagine the shopping trips were few and far between and took most of the day when they happened.

Bjorklund Road in Ogema is named after John Bjorklund (my great great grandfather)
Hallberg Road in Ogema is named after Andrew Hallberg (my great great grandfather)

The more I found out about my ancestors, the more I wanted to know. I was smitten.

Wednesday, December 24, 2014

Christmas!

Christmas- The very word evokes memories for all of us. For me, it was Christmas shopping trips to Wausau. Not the shopping itself, but the getting there. Wausau is about 40 miles from Tomahawk so to pass the time, we sang. Beginning around Thanksgiving, we switched to the Christmas favorites, carols we had learned in church to the fun songs we learned in school and other places. It was a family affair, we all sang, some more off key than others, but happy memories. Who could forget our "fractured" version of Santa Is Coming to Town?

You better watch out,
You better cry
You better pout,
I'm telling you why.
Santa Claus ain't coming to town.

He's made a list, checked it twice
He found out you were naughty, not nice,
Santa Claus ain't coming to town.

He saw you when you were sleeping,
He knows when you were awake,
He knows that you've been bad not good
So for this year it's too late.

You better watch out,
You better cry
You better pout,
I'm telling you why.
Santa Claus ain't coming to town.

Other favorites of the time: I want a Hippopotamus for Christmas; Are my ears on straight? Up on the housetop, O Christmas tree.

Our tree was always a balsam, it came in the house the day after my sister's birthday. Dad would work hard to get the lights "just so", It was then our job to unscrew the bulbs and put the colored  metal reflectors on. Ornaments were hung with care, making sure not too many in one place, but the tinsel seemed like it took forever to get the just right look. Soon colorful packages would start appearing under the tree to add more mystery. We would be admonished to leave them alone but it didn't stop us from shaking them and trying to guess.

Mom would start her Christmas baking, many varieties of cookies and candies. We kids would "help" and most times would just make more work for her with our sloppy decorating techniques.  Still, year after year she included us in this ritual. It seemed we ate them as fast as she made them.

Sunday School had switched to Christmas mode, with the lines distributed and the program scheduled. Everyone had a part, no matter how small they were. Parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles were in the pews, as the program was performed. The story of the Christ Child born in a manger.

Christmas Eve would find us feasting on Lutefisk and potato sausage before heading to a late candlelit service. Very traditional, year after year, it brings comfort to know the story hasn't changed after all these years. Jesus was born to save us all from sin.